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If you think that's not the case, I'd try online dating. You can list all your requirements, start the relationship off lightly with getting-to-know-you in writing where you can practice and think about your questions and responses, etc. Would you describe your friendships with these girls that you mentioned? Did you have problems there and what were they? Is that where you're getting these ideas about Women wants casual sex Bloomer women expect and are like?

You need to practise having relationships. That means forgetting all about the preconditions you listed, or big plans like marriage and interdependence, and especially forgetting about yourself and your own inadequacies for a bit, and just diving in at the shallow end.

It's really Women wants casual sex Bloomer simple. Find a girl you think is okay not super-hot oh my god I want to marry this personor if you can't find a girl find a substitute guy, and invite her out for lunch or coffee.

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I rather liked that. And sometimes, I wear it anyway no matter what he says. Women wants casual sex Bloomer just called being tactful. What do you talk about with your male friends? No seriously. I've never dated a guy who had a set of topics for his guy friends and a set of topics for me then again, I don't Women wants casual sex Bloomer guys who like hanging out in strip clubs.

Lots of women are not very open.

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I was going to go through the whole thing, but it sounds to me like your impressions of how women are are concocted from movies and television, and you're so far off it's not even funny. You're missing out, big time. Women wants casual sex Bloomer, instead of wanting to be convinced that you're wrong, you just want someone to tell you that yeah, you can get Heidi Klum by being a taciturn, ignorant, self-centered ass. If you have enough money, you can probably find some vapid blonde nothing who won't care and won't make demands on you.

Good luck there. It sounds like you're listing your personality traits and desires in the least appealing way and then daring us to find a woman who will want to be with you. That's fairly counter-productive, don't you think? I'd say, go ahead and "throw caution to the wind" but you should try to be open to the possibility of bending and growing and maturing. Think about it, before now you didn't care especially much about having a relationship, and now you're beginning to rethink that.

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You do Women wants casual sex Bloomer sound like someone who would mesh well with a very traditionally-minded woman who buys into gender types completely; so don't date those types of people. One way to do this is to involve yourself in activities that you are honestly interested in, not ones that you think will help you meet women. You could also try Okcupid.

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Meet local singles Bovey regard these women as a waste of time and effort. Fortunately there are also many Women wants casual sex Bloomer who actually appreciate an honest tactful opinion. I married one of them.

Note than "being honest" is not an excuse for "being a shithead. Only one of those is Womeb good answer. I admit, I'm also shallow - I greatly respect and admire intellect, creativity, ambition, and other fine qualities. I'll give the same answer I gave a woman who asked much the same thing on ask - no, not in and of itself, as long as you don't go around trying to make people feel like shit because they don't appeal to your sense of beauty.

But be aware that, depending on what you find beautiful, it can be pretty fleeting. Most of us tend to look worse at 50 than at 25 by most standards of beauty.

We go bald, we get paunches, our tits sag, our arses make a break in the direction of our knees. Learning to appreciate qualities that stick around is a great way of avoiding being a sad 50 year old striking out with 25 year olds who think you're a creepy old git.

I don't like social Women wants casual sex Bloomer - I don't want to be in an interdependent relationship, and I don't want it to be financially one-sided. I think it is.

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The other point I guess I'd make is that narrow, definite requirements are a bit odd in a 24 year old with no real experience. I don't want to sound like I'm condescending from a position of age, because I hate that shit when people have done it to me, but perhaps Women wants casual sex Bloomer should ask yourself whether you have the life experience to be certain about all the things you think you're sure of - to offer an example, an ex of mine was pretty much unconvinced that living together was worth much until she stayed over a few nights, and one morning after a fun wake up announced, "So this is why people get married!

This is a dumb worldview. A friend embarking on his first same-sex relationship asked me for advice once. I explained to him that the thing he would be most struck by is that he would suddenly discover that all the stereotypes he carried about being unable to understand women would suddenly apply to men - or, more specifically, a man: Because what makes people seem strange and weird and Fort Rumsey, Alberta mature moms needing sex to understand isn't their genitals, it's the fact you want to have a Women wants casual sex Bloomer relationship with them.

Rogerd's just given you some great advice. You're spending too much time thinking about all of this and no time actually living it. You're also presenting long lists of things as absolutes about yourself that make you "undateable", and not a single thing about what makes you dateable other Women wants casual sex Bloomer, essentially, I'm smart and I have good income potential. What's up with that?

Surely you're a nice guy, or you're funny, you're good looking-ish, or you are kind? You're You have a long, Women wants casual sex Bloomer way down the road to go just yet. Your life will change, and it will change you. Part of that process is to open to other people.

Even people you don't want to date, but just want to get to know. Why not just do that for a while and see what happens?

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Sez appears when someone has accomplished something, and in the accomplishment, their entire life would change. Change is: I Women wants casual sex Bloomer law school, now I have opportunities for work I'd find a bit more interesting or challenging than the work I had before.

Apotheosis is: I finished law school. That's when TANS kicks in. Arrogance in direct relation to how far they had to travel to scale the heights of their own metaphor. And disappointment that the queues never form This leads to confusion, loneliness and bitterness. Some people go back to school and get wanhs degree, or lose another 10 lbs, to see if the apotheosis will come and that TAN machine will get a workout. Those who figure out how silly it is to think that a Women wants casual sex Bloomer or losing 20 lbs will solve all their feelings of inadequacy and make them a golden object eex desire Don't fall victim to TANS.

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Same sorts of stuff you're talking about in your original post.

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Take that cautionary tale as you see fit. The period of time he had TANS before he met this girl, he could have met someone different. Or maybe not. The point is, you won't know for yourself unless you just open Want a companion for the fall and beyond door to change and to women as people.

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You wont turn into some bodice-ripper romantic lead, but you may find yourself a tad less cxsual about the whole thing. Start small, be open minded, jettison your assumptions, and just Blooomer out there and do you best. Lastly, you should really ask yourself if youre depressed. Reading your question set off some red flags for me for depression. Relationships are easier when you arent depressed.

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